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Sizzling Sex in 30 Days
© Roz Van Meter
Excerpt: Exuberant Sensuality
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If you’re like most of us, you are so busy chasing the career, the calendar, or the kids, that your hurry-up just keeps accelerating. You know what I mean. The days, weeks, months, years seem to pick up speed. You just get the Christmas wreath put away when it’s time to take it out again.
Meantime, that wonderful, sexy, sensual excitement you used to feel gets shoved to a back seat on your runaway mine train.
You need an owner’s manual to help you regain your mind/body/spirit connection to yourself and your Beloved. Whether or not you are in an emotionally committed relationship, you can reclaim all that wonderful sexy energy RIGHT NOW.
You deserve it. It’s your birthright. You were born with exuberant sensuality. You may not remember it, but before the world started toning it down, your sexiness was natural, open, innocent, and lots of fun.
I know a three-year-old boy whose mother is delighted when he strips off his pajamas, streaks out the back door toward the pool, and hollers, “It’s NAKED BOY!” as he cannonballs into the water.
Healthy, exuberant sensuality can wake you up, make you feel more alive than you’ve been since you were a toddler. It can create a new level of intimacy, deeper than you’ve ever known.
Cheeseburgers, Steaks, and Diet Colas
If a friend asks me to go to lunch, there are times when my reaction is, “You bet, I’m starving. Let’s go right now.”
Other times I might say, “I’m not very hungry, but I’ll go along and keep you company. Maybe I’ll get hungry after we get there.”
Then there are times when my answer is, “I had a big late breakfast, and I couldn’t look at food right now. Thanks anyway.”
Or maybe, “I’ve got a lot on my mind right now, and I want (need) to stay with it. How about tomorrow?”
If you were my friend, would you take any of this personally? Of course not. You’d understand that I was telling you about me, not about you. Besides, you aren’t always hungry either.
Isn’t it amazing, though, how defensive we can get about another person’s current appetite for sex? We start telling ourselves scary stories about our own lack of appeal.
So listen. If I eat at your house and ask you to pass the salt, that is not a comment about how you grilled the steak. It’s just that right then I want more salt. It’s that simple.
(Well, it’s that simple about steak. Where human beings are concerned, of course, nothing is ever really simple.)
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